i know i had promised to write a post evry two days but last week was really really busy just couldnt find time to write though i was happy that so many new things are happening that i can talk about in my blog..

Well it was family time once again...may be i should say its a family phase once again in my life ,after a self imposed exile of 7 years ( i left the house in 2007 for my btech and then did my mba from mumbai) i am once again staying with my family and i am loving it..

May be everyone has to go through this entire cycle so as to realise the value of our family..While growing up our parents our the shoulders on which we cut our teeth..they mean the world to us,they are the shelter we run towards when the outside world becomes too hard to bear(this one fact will always stay true throughout our lives) they are the one who take us out ,our outings ,our fun,our good times are all because of them in our childhood..but growing up somehow changes each one of us,a new world suddenly opens to us,new people start entering our lives and though our parents still remain the same adoring lot we somehow drift towards other people , new found freindships and new found love takes us away from our secure shelter of unconditional love.Knowingly or unknowingly ,willingly or unwillingly we just drift away into this new world of ours...only returinng occasionally to recharge our exhausted batteries when the outside world tires us out and we always find our old home at the same place ,our parents waiting for us there as always ..who have been now accustomed to good times and fun only with us..they remain the same..may be age with time but their love and affection for us has only increased with time...it is we who change..

But after a long time when the newwness of the new found world wears away and we find that it was not all it had promised to be,when our so called friends move on ,when the love we thought would end our lonliness and suffering just turnout to be another give and take relationship,When we realise the hard truth of life that no one cares for you unless they have their own selfish interests and it is only then we realise the importance of the unconditional love of our parents who just want us to be happy ,even though it meant for them to letting us go farther and farther away from them into our own worlds..but they endured all the pain and loneliness to give us our happiness our so called space...

Its better that we realise the importance of family and parents as early in life as possible because sometimes there are no second chances!

I love you mom and dad for living your entire life around me...for doing so may things for mr that are impossible even to list down..thanks for giving me this life to live and learn..thanks for allowing me to make mistakes and learn from them even though now i realize it must be so tough for you to see me making the same mistakes again and again..thanks for being the most wonderful people in my life ..thanks for being my world!